Facebook fall out!

I need to clarify 2 things. I'll start with the stupidest and least important one:

I feel the need to declare that I have not (nor will I) had an affair, neither on line, on the phone, nor in person. I worked very hard to help a former boy-friend, who lied to me and used our contact to make himself feel better during a difficult time in his life, until he got a girlfriend. Turns out, during this time he was nailing anything that would say yes, and even those of us who were just being nice, he is now trying to tell people that we had sexual conversations and is inferring more!

Those of you who know me understand that I tend to be flirty when I talk to people... male or female! I am very affectionate, and I hug everybody... and even kiss my friends! I MAY have hugged this person when I saw him for the first time in 25 years. I also talked about the good times we had when we were younger (he didn't get sex then, either!) I will discuss anything honestly and openly, but there was nothing that he could have even misunderstood as a sexual relationship! It's a shame I have to even talk about this, but he is telling mutual friends that we were involved. I take my marriage and fidelity VERY seriously. I have the most amazing, trusting husband in the world, who is the only person I have ever had sex with, and visa-versus (sp?) We worked hard to be this way, so it is important that people know the truth!

You are welcome to ask me ANYTHING, either privately or publicly. I have nothing to hide!

The second thing is more important, because I have really harmed a relationship that I care about, and I need to make sure that I haven't hurt others. In my effort to be witty, I trampled on the reputation of an old friend, and I did that for over a year. Please don't let me do this! If I hurt your feelings, tell me the first time. If I joke about something that is important to you, please tell me.

I am hoping to repair the damage I have done, but it will take time. My friends are very important to me, so I will do what ever it takes to make things better. If you have suggestions, let me know!

Anyway, that's all I have to say about that...
-jay-

Ps. prayer request time is for me and my friend. Pray for healing and forgiveness!