Friday, September 10, 2010

Off to my dad's retirement party...


I was 2-years-old when my parents became Christians. Before that, my dad would have been voted: "most likely to bring and drink all the beer," and my mom would have been voted: "most likely to steal joey's beer and then do something stupid on a dare!" You should have seen their classmates faces at their 10-year-reunion when Wild Joey was introduced as "Pastor Joe." What a hoot!

After his time in the army and a brief stop in Redmond, my dad moved our family back to their hometown, Roseburg, Oregon, where Steve Reischke (sp?) saw the words "suckers" stamped on my parents' foreheads. He snagged them to be youth leaders, and they loved it. That first youth group in Roseburg was an amazing group of fun kids, who loved jesus and loved spending time with each other. They also loved spending time with our family. Don't tell anybody, but that Roseburg group was my all-time favorite. Perhaps it was the people, or my age, or just that it wasn't a paid gig. It was fun to be a teenager in grade-school. When asked what we did that weekend, I'm guessing my third grade teacher wasn't expecting, "we porked out on free (kind of even stolen) pizza, talked about boys, then TPed Jack Hinkle's room!

After a few years of full-time volunteer work, my parents completely lost their minds, quit their jobs, sold the house, rented a house sight-unseen, and moved us up to Portland to enroll in Multanoma Bible school and take a job the required them both to work full time for a single part-time paying youth pastor job. Talk about a leap of faith!

Just a couple weeks ago, my dad retired from 35 years of youth work. I was incredibly proud to see all the lives he (and my mom) had touched and changed. I'll continue the story of their work on my next blog, but I wanted to at least get this first part out and say thank you to all of those who honored my parents at their party in Roseburg. Plus, if you missed that party, you'll have a second chance; my friend, Tanna and I are going to host a second party coming up next month here at my house. We will keep you posted on time and date.

Marilyn played a gorgeous arrangement of "Thank you" at the party. Although it was instrumental, most of us knew the lyrics. The main words say, "thank you for giving to the Lord; I am a life changed. Thank you for giving to the Lord. I am so glad you gave..."

Thursday, September 9, 2010

long time no write...

Ever wish you were a kid again? I only envy my health and energy, plus I was pretty darn cute!

I've been sick again... the flu this time. It has passed thru the family, and has lingered for about 3 weeks for me. The others were down for a day or two. I have so many things that I want to do, and so many things that I should do... but as soon as I am up and going, I get knock back on my butt! Sometimes I feel completely defeated. Why get back up? Maybe taking a dive isn't such a bad idea. Of course this idea would work if I didn't have my children; they are the sources of my sanity and my insanity. I would never want my kids to think that they weren't enough for me to stick around. So onward I plod.

Someday (SOON) I hope to run and skip and jump and dance... until then, could I just sleep? Nope, I think it's just time to keep plodding along. And to keep looking for healing, where ever it may be.

To those of you who are awaiting hanging out with me, I want you to know that I would love to do that... now let's see when I CAN do that. Hopefully soon. I have friends to the south, and friends up north, I have friends in the east, and ever out west on the coast, not to mention the one right here. I love you all and hope that you will continue to give me grace as I try to pull together. There are quite a few of you that I owe, and I'm looking forward to feeling well enough to pay you back.

So for now my dreams are small... get all the dishes washed, make sure we all have clean underwear, and get people to the right places at the right time. The bigger things will come in time.

hugs and stuff, -jay-

PS. Joe's retirement party is this sunday morning down in roseburg, OR. I am super proud of the 35 years of ministry my parents have had, working with youth. let me know if u need more info.